Out of order and under duress

"But if any provide not for his own, especially for those of his own household, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel" 1 Timothy 5:8

Many christian men seem to stay their focus on the woman's role of submission when outlining God's order for the household, yet often bypass this equally important scripture. In this, they become blind to the realization of God's order in every aspect that it exists, taking in only the sweet and spewing the bitter. The truth, however, is that being the head of a household is more than an attitude or a birthright inherited by gender, but a financial responsibility as well, making the action of a woman being the bread winner or sole provider of said household as equally out of order as her declaring herself the head of it.